This is how you (truly) get to know your partner!
This is how you (truly) get to know your partner!

Maybe you’re in a relationship for quite some time already, or you have just started dating. Whether you have known each other for a long time or not, it’s always fun to get to know each other even more, or to add a new dynamic to your relationship. That is why I have selected the most interesting and exciting questions that you can ask your partner or date. Just ask these questions and get to know each other on a deeper level! There’s only one rule: you have to ask your partner all these questions and he or she has to answer all of them. Have fun!

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Questions

  • What is the greatest achievement of your life?

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  • Where and when was our first date?

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  • What question would you ask if you knew the answer would be the truth?

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  • Would you change anything about our relationship? If yes, what would that be?

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  • What is your favourite memory of our relationship?

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  • What makes me different from other people around you?

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  • What do you like most about our relationship?

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  • What moment in the past would you like to go back to?

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  • What trip would you like to take with me?

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  • If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would that be?

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  • Who inspires you?

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  • What kind of adventure would you like to go on with me?

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  • What is the best advice you have ever received?

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Pick & choose! 

Below you can find 8 questions and dilemmas. You have to choose between the two, good luck! 🙂

Pick A: 

Or B:

Pick A:

Or B:

  • I am a giver
  • I am a receiver
  • Being smart but not pretty or handsome
  • Being very pretty or handsome but not smart
  • Never have sex again
  • Never kiss again
  • Preparing a 5-course meal every evening
  • Eating fast food every day
  • You have to redo primary school
  • You talk to people like you talk to babies
  • Never going on a holiday
  • Never having to work anymore
  • Being immortal
  • Being born as someone else
  • Getting caught by a family member watching porn
  • Participating in a porn movie

You or me?

Last step! Which of you fit the below statements the most?

Which of us:

Speaks the most languages? 

  • You 
  • Me 
Which of us:

Is better at parking? 

  • You 
  • Me 
Which of us:

Is the best at cooking? 

  • You 
  • Me 
Which of us:

Is the most romantic? 

  • You 
  • Me
Which of us:

Makes the best jokes? 

  • You
  • Me 
Which of us:

Is more optimistic? 

  • You 
  • Me
Which of us:

is best at saving money? 

  • You 
  • Me 
Which of us:

Is the biggest prude? 

  • You 
  • Me
Which of us:

Wants to move to another country? 

  • You 
  • Me
Which of us:

Handles criticism the best? 

  • You 
  • Me
Which of us:

Is the biggest globetrotter? 

  • You 
  • Me
Which of us:

Is more adventurous in bed? 

  • You 
  • Me
Which of us:

Is the best at keeping secrets? 

  • You 
  • Me
Which of us:

Doesn’t mind PDA? 

  • You 
  • Me
Which of us:

Has the best relationship with the in-laws?

  • You 
  • Me
Which of us:

Is the most caring? 

  • You 
  • Me

And? Did you have fun and truly get to know each other?

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Britt Stoker

Hi! My name is Britt, psychologist coach at NiceDay. Through online coaching I can guide and help you with what’s on your mind. Loves animals, traveling, photography and delicious food.

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