Hatred

Hi,

Thank you for your message. You express that you hate your stepdaughter and don't want her to live with your mother-in-law. At the end, you mention feeling like nobody sees your suffering and that you're dealing with depression. It's unfortunate to hear that you're going through a difficult time. I notice there isn't a specific question, but I'll try to offer some assistance.

Hate is a strong and intense feeling of aversion toward a person or group of people. Hate arises when you lack empathy or compassion for someone. The inability to empathize with others can lead to a lack of understanding for them. Feelings of hate can develop when you feel belittled, subordinate, or jealous.

Open communication is crucial so that everyone feels heard, understood, and taken seriously. This can help you understand each other's perspectives and work together to find a solution that works for everyone. You can try expressing how you feel and what your needs are in this situation, while also considering the feelings and needs of others.

Don't forget that it's essential to work on your emotional well-being and seek professional help if necessary. You can reach out to a therapist or counsellor who can assist you in understanding and processing your emotions and overcoming the challenges you're facing. They can provide you with tools to manage your anger, depression, and emotions.

Best regards, Martijn