Secretly dressing up

Hi,

Thank you for your question! You mentioned that sometimes when your parents are not home, you secretly go into their bedroom. You put on your mother's pantyhose and apply a bit of makeup. By the time they come home, you've already showered, and they don't notice anything. You find it very exciting but don't feel like a woman. You're wondering whether you should tell your parents about this. I'd be happy to offer some guidance.

Dressing up as the opposite gender is known as 'Crossdressing.' Crossdressing can be a form of self-expression, a way for you to express yourself. You are exploring your interests and identity, and how you choose to do that is a personal decision. It's not unusual for people to experiment, especially when trying to figure out their interests. If you're considering telling your parents, it's essential to consider your own feelings, well-being, potential consequences, and your relationship with your parents.

If you're unsure about whether to share this with them, you can start by seeking support or understanding from a trusted friend, or a counsellor in your community, such as a family doctor, someone at school, or a therapist. They can guide you and provide a safe space to explore your feelings and identity, helping you decide whether or not you want to share this with your parents.

In summary, it's not unusual to enjoy dressing up, and it's entirely up to you whether you want to share this with your parents, as long as your own happiness and well-being remain a priority. If you'd like to talk to a therapist, you can reach out to your family doctor for advice.

Best regards,