Sometimes when my parents leave the house I sneak out to their bedroom. I put on my mother’s pantyhose and apply a bit of makeup. By the time they return home, I’ve already showered, so they don’t notice anything. I find it very exciting, but don’t feel like a woman. Should I tell my parents about this?

At least since the lockdowns, I increasingly experience an irresistible urge to watch and download porn several times a day. In the evening I watch the downloaded porn on the television and I masturbate for at least two hours. I almost always use a masturbator. I don’t always cum, although I am able to.

In the meantime, I’ve been working on it for at least three hours a day and I’m starting to believe that there is an addiction.

I don’t want any treatment for that. I also find it too inconvenient at the moment.

What I want to know is to what extent it is ‘disturbed’ what I do and what the best way is to channel this need.

I’ve had a boyfriend for a few months now, and we’re starting to get more and more intimate in our relationship. I’m really not a big fan of kissing or more intimate contact, I feel like I really need to be really into it before I enjoy it. Because of this I started to have doubts about my sexuality, and whether I might have asexual thoughts? Now I’m in a bind and I don’t feel comfortable talking about this with my boyfriend, and I don’t quite understand why or how. Do you have any ideas or thoughts about this?

Hello. I am a 29 year old Female, engaged to a 28 y o man I met at the University. We love and adore each other and he is smitten by me. I love him and we share a very sweet bond. But I have realized that I am not very sexually attracted to him. I have spoken to different guys and also have dated previously. But the bond and emotional connection I share with him I haven’t felt with anyone else. But where he is extremely attracted to my body and finds me very beautiful even in shabby clothes and hair, I don’t feel so turned on. We have had sex many times and he always seems to be wanting a lot more while I like doing it maybe once or twice a day (we are in long distant and meet for say, 3 4 days after months). As Indians we also have to struggle a lot to convince our families for the wedding and he is taking a stand against his family for me. I know that he is going to be a great husband and a father to children in the future. I might be sounding slightly selfish here. But I also want that while he gets love and great sex, I too feel attracted to him. It frightens me to think that what if I have to live all my life like this and despite marrying such an amazing guy, I will be unhappy. I also cannot dream of losing him or letting him go because that will hurt me as well as scar him for life. I can see how much he loves me and he is almost obsessed with me. I wish I was obsessed with him too. We’d be so much more happier and we already are quite happy.

Hi, I am a 32-year-old woman. Already 9 years in a nice relationship with a sweet man who does everything for me. We have a nice house and 2 sweet, healthy sons aged 5 and 6 years.

In every relationship I’ve ever had I cheated and I still do, I’ve never felt better because of it but I still can’t stop and I don’t really understand why. I have the best sex with my own partner and if it’s up to him it happens often enough! Yet I continue to have the uncontrolled need to challenge other men and I won’t rest until I’ve conquered them… Which makes me really bummed every time afterwards. Why am I doing this?